Ten Reasons Why You Should Drop What You’re Doing and Watch The X Files; 05. The MS Relationship/Romance
If anything, The X Files is most known for the pairing that’s probably considered as one of the most notable and strongest in TV history. While I would love nothing more than to explain to you all why Mulder and Scully are the best OTP to rule the seas, that’s not what this post is for (alas! maybe another day.) But I will tell you that there’s probably no relationship that can match the relationship shared between these two; a relationship that has developed through nine years and two movies and that has never failed to surprise me or move my heart.
We started off with two individuals, who were almost nothing alike in their beliefs- one who was a scientist, who stuck to the facts and the hard evidence, and the other, who wanted nothing more desperately to believe in the things that could not be seen or were not put to light. And yet, they shared common ground in their faith. Scully stuck with hers for the longest time, and Mulder stuck with his (with hiccups in the middle of course). But that’s not what makes their relationship so thrilling, so dynamic and such a pleasure to watch. The interaction between these two, and the times their trust in themselves and in each other have been put to the test have shown the boundaries of a relationship. Mulder and Scully have pushed those boundaries with their absolute trust in each other- in some aspects, they trust each other more than they trust themselves. And that trust is broken, reformed, and twisted through many experiences- some good, most bad- but at the end of the day, they still come to reconcile with what they’ve seen and recognizing each other and respecting each other. What starts off as a platonic, deep friendship turns into something more, and there’s nothing more beautiful in seeing how a relationship grows on a show.
I think what makes Mulder and Scully’s relationship define much of the show is also the consideration of believing. They influence each other, pull and push on each other’s faith. Many times Scully sets aside her rigid beliefs of science to help Mulder, and vice versa. At the same time though, they’re willing to question each other and themselves by what they’ve seen. They constantly twist and change and evolve in their bonds and identities, and know each other like the back of their hands, but at the same time they know when to stop at a certain point where they still remain themselves, where they don’t question each other’s beliefs and respect that. All in all, it comes down to their undying respect and trust in each other. As Scully very accurately says in an episode, “the best relationships - the ones that last - are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship. You know, one day you look at the person and you see something more than you did the night before. Like a switch has been flicked somewhere. And the person who was just a friend is… suddenly the only person you can ever imagine yourself with.”
Lastly, what makes the dynamic between Mulder and Scully worth watching is the consistency (which in itself is another reason for watching this show, but more of that later). They never really act out of character in any episodes, and their relationship remains firm and doesn’t manage to cross the point where you start questioning if it’s real or not. It is certainly not rushed, but almost so gradual to the point that when they do ‘get together’ you’re not sure whether it’s the first confession or not; you can’t actually put your finger on the timeline and say that this is when it happened, or this is the change in their development. I think that slow progress is equally beautiful as it is realistic and special, what makes them special, and really, what makes this show special.